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Caro Kinkead's avatar

Up until November, we were busy caregiving for an elderly, demanding (and somewhat abusive) parent. Rest? What was that? Learning to rest and genuinely relax is something I’ve been having to reteach myself this year. I’ve discovered one of my favorite things is to pick up some knitting where I don’t need to look at the pattern, put on an audiobook and knit. The combo of the movment of the needles and the words in my years (cozy mysteries preferred) lets me shut out the word and engage me enough that my mind doesn’t wander off to all the things I “should” be doing. At the same time, it is soothing and mindless enough that my mind and body can rest. Yes, I have fallen asleep with needles in hand and book still playing. Comfort viewing works as well, and with September on the horizon, it’s almost time to do my annual viewing of Practical Magic.

Reading helps, if it’s a book which engages me. If I get truly restless and don’t feel like going for a walk, I might sit down at the computer and do some writing. Not whatever my current project is, but something for fun, usually fanfic of some kind. Since this stuff will never be seen by *anyone* but me, it’s a great place to doodle.

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Beth Clarke's avatar

I meant to add - one of my dearest friends calls her writing gremlin Dolly. Dolly gets lots of blame for angst and chaos, and regular gremlin treats for amazing ideas (even chaotic angsty ones).

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